If you're reading this while running on empty, you're not alone.
Over 80% of us report feeling more stressed during the holidays. Burnout hit record highs this year—affecting more than half of all workers. The season meant for joy has become a gauntlet of expectations you can barely keep up with.
But here's what the statistics don't tell you: what if your exhaustion isn't the problem? What if it's the messenger?
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When Burnout Becomes Breaking Through
I've worked with high-achievers for over two decades, and I've noticed something the research doesn't capture. The people who come to me completely depleted aren't failing—they're on the edge of profound transformation. Their old operating system is giving out.
Your nervous system isn't malfunctioning when it signals overwhelm. It's alerting you that something needs to change. The anxiety, the fatigue, the sense that you can't keep doing this—these aren't signs of weakness. They're invitations to evolve.
You didn't arrive at burnout by accident. You got here by being conscientious, caring, and committed—by putting others first, by earning your worth through achievement. These qualities aren't flaws. They've just been operating without wisdom, without boundaries, without knowing that your value doesn't require constant proof.
What's Really Happening
Chronic stress rewires your brain—your fear center goes into overdrive while your clarity shuts down. You're operating from survival mode, not thriving mode.
But this isn't just a mechanical malfunction to fix. It's consciousness trying to get your attention.
Your December burnout might be asking: What if I stopped performing and started being? What if this breaking point is life saying, "You've outgrown this version of yourself"?
A Practice for Right Now
You don't need a week-long retreat. You need two minutes.
Right now: Place one hand on your heart, one on your belly. Breathe in for four counts, hold for four, out for six. As you breathe, acknowledge: "This is hard. And I'm allowed to feel this."
That's it. No fixing, no forcing. Just presence. Just breath.
Even two minutes shifts your nervous system from fight-or-flight to rest-and-restore.
The Real Invitation
As we move toward the new year, everyone will shout about resolutions and self-improvement. More doing, more achieving, more proving.
I'm offering you something different.
What if you entered 2025 not with a to-do list, but with a question: What wants to emerge through me?
Not how can I fix myself, but how can I align with who I actually am. Not what goals will make me worthy, but what life would I create if I already knew I was enough.
Your burnout isn't the end of the story. It might just be the beginning.
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With presence,
James O'Neill, LCPC
P.S. The breaking point can become the breaking-through point. If this resonated, share it with someone who needs to hear it.
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